Today, I just lost a bet to a homeless man he guessed what state I was born in (an infant), how many kids my father had (0 - my mom had the kids) , and how many letters where in your last name (12 - "your last name").

Best two dollars I ever lost.

In the words of Bob Marley..

"Only once in your life, I truly believe, you find someone who can completely turn your world around. You tell them things that you’ve never shared with another soul and they absorb everything you say and actually want to hear more. You share hopes for the future, dreams that will never come true, goals that were never achieved and the many disappointments life has thrown at you. When something wonderful happens, you can’t wait to tell them about it, knowing they will share in your excitement. They are not embarrassed to cry with you when you are hurting or laugh with you when you make a fool of yourself. Never do they hurt your feelings or make you feel like you are not good enough, but rather they build you up and show you the things about yourself that make you special and even beautiful.

There is never any pressure, jealousy or competition but only a quiet calmness when they are around. You can be yourself and not worry about what they will think of you because they love you for who you are. The things that seem insignificant to most people such as a note, song or walk become invaluable treasures kept safe in your heart to cherish forever. Memories of your childhood come back and are so clear and vivid it’s like being young again. Colours seem brighter and more brilliant. Laughter seems part of daily life where before it was infrequent or didn’t exist at all. A phone call or two during the day helps to get you through a long day’s work and always brings a smile to your face. In their presence, there’s no need for continuous conversation, but you find you’re quite content in just having them nearby.

Things that never interested you before become fascinating because you know they are important to this person who is so special to you. You think of this person on every occasion and in everything you do. Simple things bring them to mind like a pale blue sky, gentle wind or even a storm cloud on the horizon. You open your heart knowing that there’s a chance it may be broken one day and in opening your heart, you experience a love and joy that you never dreamed possible. You find that being vulnerable is the only way to allow your heart to feel true pleasure that’s so real it scares you. You find strength in knowing you have a true friend and possibly a soul mate who will remain loyal to the end. Life seems completely different, exciting and worthwhile. Your only hope and security is in knowing that they are a part of your life."

— Bob Marley

"And those who were seen dancing were thought to be insane by those who could not hear the music."

Sometimes all you need is a shade tree and a few minutes, to change your whole attitude.

What's the word for when life pulls you in every direction possible?

I'm coming up empty from one moment to the next.
In the past two weeks, I've lived through a devastating death, a wonderful birth, and a beautiful marriage. More than anything it all makes you reflect on yourself more and what you maybe should have seen or been.
It's difficult to shut your brain off
and just stop the onslaught of thoughts and questions.
Too much liquor and a few friends always help.
But ultimately, we are alone in our grief
and maybe lucky enough to share our happiness.
Let's be thankful for the people we love...
especially the ones that hold us up and teach us who we are.